Dog lovers share a common bond which can make opening a conversation very natural, easy & comfortable.
I, personally, have met and made great friends while out walking my dogs in the local area. Meetings that otherwise would probably never have happened.
In our highly charged societies it can often be quite difficult to meet people with shared interests. There is so often a wariness among us; be careful of that stranger says our mind chatter, don't look up, don't make eye contact, mind your own business and so on and on. Sadly, while commonsense is required for our own safety, these beliefs actually create barriers and obstacles to us connecting with each other.
Dogs have this amazing ability to unite us on common ground. They allow us to quickly assess another by simply observing the interaction they have with their pet dog. Are they loving and affectionate to their dog? Does their dog seem relaxed and happy in their presence? (Or the opposite!), are they patient and kind? Questions that go to the very core of one's character and that can normally take quite some time to find out about a person.
The qualities and character traits we desire in a partner or friend can all be observed and witnessed firsthand between them and their dog. Dog's are open, honest and easy to read books, they have no ulterior motives – what is, is! What you see is what you get, so unlike humans! Dogs allow us to gain some deep insights into their owners before we even physically meet them. Of course, once again, some good old commonsense is required here so as to not just pre-judge people unfairly but, as a rule of thumb you can rely on your instincts as you observe the dog / human relationship.
Nothing is fool proof but, I can tell you from my own experience and observations that, dogs definitely give us a head start in the sometimes painful and awkward meeting & greeting game.
To add some interest & support to my theory I'll refer you to a newspaper article that a friend clipped & sent me last year. The article was written by Kate Adamson in the Sunday Herald Sun – May 27, 2007 (heraldsun.com.au) and titled "Love's in lap of the dogs". It told the story of Paul & Pam and how Pam's Kelpie dog Shiva brought them together.
Ms. Adamson included some interesting statistics in her article. According to her source the Top Ten "Date Bait" dogs are:-
1. Golden Retriever 2. Jack Russell Terrier 3. Labrador Retriever 4. Miniature Poodle 5. Boxer 6. Pug 7. West Highland White Terrier 8. Miniature Schnauzer 9. Cavalier King Charles Spaniel 10. Old English Sheep Dog
To be honest I suspect that, all dogs are very effective ice-breakers. Even the nervous or aggressive problem types can still give an interesting platform to start a dialogue going.
So, The Moral of the Story is; you need to get out there walking with your dog! No matter what type of dog you have. If nothing else it's great exercise and very good for you. To make the experience a safe and happy one check out the brand new Walk-Me Slip Harness. It gives you complete control while being kind and gentle on your dog.
If walking your dog brings you love or friendship then please share your experience with me by clicking on the link below, I'd love to hear your story.
PS… Please don't get a dog just for this purpose! A pet dog should only be brought into your life if you are willing to love it unconditionally, for better or for worse – just as they love you. It is a lifetime commitment!